I had ecountered with my two best friends a couple days ago at one of mall in Jakarta. Our intentions are shopping, eating and chatting. Me and my other friend was go and out each store at that mall and my other friend really pissed off. She said that she never thought it would be that kind of shopping. Haha, sorry dear. So we had an early dinner in the evening, and the conversation began with current relationship. Okay, I became a hot topic because a man escorted me to the mall. That's another story. In the midst of this conversation, I found out that my friend's ex- boyfriend, as I recall broke up about a year ago, already married to someone else. Though my friend 's been dating long enough, probably about 4 years, I was shocked to hear the news. I feel sorry for her but she can handle it so far, kinda proud of her anyway.
After hearing the news, I remembered some of the same stories. My friends have a long relationship with their partner. So everyone thinks they know for sure if they eventually married . But in fact , exactly like my friend, they broke up and married to someone else. Ah, it turns out to complicated. Time does not guarantee for a relationship to happily ever after. The period of the relationship does not guarantee that someone has the determination to go to the next step. Determination! I remembered someone said that. LOL. When viewed as the third person, like me, that incident makes us think negatively like the cheating spouse. The more I heard that story, I look for the positive side of these events. Long relationship can be an indication of doubt. I can not believe I said this, like a love expert ! HAHA. No, No, it does not mean that way. That's more like my personal opinion.
I'm the type of person who believes in love at first sight. Not only the person but also the atmosphere or something. So if I've love to someone, something or the atmosphere, I do not need any reason. In short meaning, just believe in your heart. The heart never lies. So I think they or maybe one of them realized and finally acknowledge that this relationship could not continue. They tried to be honest, although it seemed too late. But I think it's still not too late, because this kind of courage need more time. Being honest to yourself is one of the hardest things. Circumstances change, so does the feeling. For the good of ourselves and others, we must have the courage to admit the truth. Even if in the end they find their partner in a short time, I think it was destiny and they follow their conscience. So never be afraid to be honest to yourself although at first it hurts you and others, but it just the beginning of your happiness. So being honest isn't always turns out to be bad. Wish you all great future..LOVE!
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